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3 Dysfunctional Thoughts That Are Signs It Will Not End Well with Your Employer

3 Dysfunctional Thoughts That Are Signs It Will Not End Well with Your Employer

All it takes is one dysfunctional thought to create an unhealthy relationship between leaders and the organizations they serve. Here are 3 dysfunctional thoughts we have seen show up in a variety of contexts, leading to poor outcomes every time. Are any of these present in your thinking?

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Energy Thieves! 8 Warning Signs That People Are Stealing Your Emotional Energy

Energy Thieves! 8 Warning Signs That People Are Stealing Your Emotional Energy

Growing up in my town, we were often on the lookout for thieves who would take your bike, grill, tires, or just about anything. But we need to be aware of a different type of thief in our lives and organizations, the energy thief. Here are eight signs that you may have someone tapping into your emotional energy and zapping your joy - without your permission.

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Looking to Hire “Good People”? You May Want to Re-Think Your Expectations
Staffing & HR, Hiring & Retention, Blog Jay Desko, Ph.D. Staffing & HR, Hiring & Retention, Blog Jay Desko, Ph.D.

Looking to Hire “Good People”? You May Want to Re-Think Your Expectations

One of the most common phrases we hear is “I can’t find anyone to hire!” Everyone wants “the best,” but there are only so many “bests” to go around. Here's why most employers can't find what they are looking for and three things they should keep in mind during the hiring process.

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Candor: How to Balance Truth with Care [VIDEO]

Candor: How to Balance Truth with Care [VIDEO]

Speaking with candor is easier said than done. People can either speak so directly that they forget how it will affect the other person, or they are so compassionate that the meaning of the feedback is lost. Here are helpful tips for balancing both care and confrontation when giving candor and how to receive it well.

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Building Loyalty: How to Avoid the "25th Amendment" in Your Team

Building Loyalty: How to Avoid the "25th Amendment" in Your Team

What would happen if our businesses, churches, and nonprofit organizations had the authority to remove their leader? Like on Survivor, would your team vote you off the island? If the answer might be yes, here are seven actions to earn and retain your team’s loyalty.

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Moving from Seething to Healing: 8 Ways We Can Do Better [INFOGRAPHIC]
Leadership, Staffing & HR, Personal Growth, Blog Jay Desko, Ph.D. Leadership, Staffing & HR, Personal Growth, Blog Jay Desko, Ph.D.

Moving from Seething to Healing: 8 Ways We Can Do Better [INFOGRAPHIC]

Over the past year, we have experienced an extraordinary amount of emotional, relational, and physical destruction and death. So how can we move forward and experience healing in our families, organizations, churches, and country? Here are 8 ways we can all do better and actually make a difference.

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Conflict: How to Fight Right [VIDEO]

Conflict: How to Fight Right [VIDEO]

Conflict in organizations and relationships is inevitable. But you have the option to make it valuable by learning to fight right instead of letting it become toxic and destructive. Here are four elements in learning how to fight right.

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Teams: 5 Traits of a High Performing Team [VIDEO]

Teams: 5 Traits of a High Performing Team [VIDEO]

Some teams just chase the next thing in front of them. Others rely on a single “superstar” to carry them. But neither of these methods will allow a team to be successful in the long run. Here are five traits of high performing teams.

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Stop Whining About Meetings! 7 Ways to Make Meetings Valuable

Stop Whining About Meetings! 7 Ways to Make Meetings Valuable

Most people tend to whine about meetings saying they are “too long,” “a waste of time,” and “inefficient.” But instead of whining, consider making your meetings as effective as possible by focusing on these seven actions.

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How to Handle Confrontation with Compassionate Candor

How to Handle Confrontation with Compassionate Candor

“Tell it like it is.” “Be honest.” These are just a few of the phrases we often hear when it comes to candor. But they are easier said than done. Here are steps to practice compassionate candor – speaking to others in a way that is both forthright AND caring.

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7 Actions to Improve Employee Retention

7 Actions to Improve Employee Retention

“We can’t find any new employees!” “Younger employees sure don’t stay in one job for very long.” Our consulting team hears statements like these a lot. The struggle to find and retain qualified employees is partly a result of low unemployment and economic growth. Here are seven actions that each of us can take to help create a higher retention environment among our teams.

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