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Serving Fatigue: When Helping Results in Weariness

Serving Fatigue: When Helping Results in Weariness

There’s muscle fatigue, giving fatigue, caregiving fatigue, and even parenting fatigue. But there is another we commonly see in our work with leaders: serving fatigue. Here are some of the most common causes and a few suggestions for managing it in your life.

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Questions Every Leader or Owner Should Be Asking Right Now
Leadership, Crisis, Self Leadership, Planning, Blog Jay Desko, Ph.D. Leadership, Crisis, Self Leadership, Planning, Blog Jay Desko, Ph.D.

Questions Every Leader or Owner Should Be Asking Right Now

We are now in week three of Covid-19 in the US, and there is an ever-growing abundance of webinars, blogs, articles, and podcasts, all offering advice. While it is good to listen and learn, it is equally important to make sure you are asking yourself, your board, and your team the right questions. Here are 19 questions we believe you should be considering over the next few weeks.

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How to Thrive Under the Strains of Leadership
Coaching, Leadership, Self Leadership, Blog Paul D. Keisling, MSW, CPRP Coaching, Leadership, Self Leadership, Blog Paul D. Keisling, MSW, CPRP

How to Thrive Under the Strains of Leadership

Some days the phone doesn’t stop ringing, the emails are constant, and there are multiple knocks on the door. You and I are not the first to experience this strain which comes from clinging to the role of a lonely, central leader. Here are 5 key steps to relieving that strain without diminishing your impact.

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5 Daily Actions of Leaders That Will Be Remembered (in a Positive Way!)
Coaching, Leadership, Self Leadership, Blog Jay Desko, Ph.D. Coaching, Leadership, Self Leadership, Blog Jay Desko, Ph.D.

5 Daily Actions of Leaders That Will Be Remembered (in a Positive Way!)

Think about all of the leaders for whom you have worked. I bet some trigger unkind thoughts because of how little they added to your life, but others give you pause because of how great they were – how they added energy, value, and positivity to your life. If you want to be favorably remembered by those you now lead, consider doing these five things – every day.

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Leading Blind: The Common Occurrence of Blind Spots & How to Correct Them
Coaching, Leadership, Self Leadership, Blog Jay Desko, Ph.D. Coaching, Leadership, Self Leadership, Blog Jay Desko, Ph.D.

Leading Blind: The Common Occurrence of Blind Spots & How to Correct Them

Picture yourself with a blindfold on and then attempting to drive a car (bad idea and also illegal!), or to walk your dog, or to throw a Frisbee. It’s hard to picture anything but problems emerging. The same is true for those who lead but with the inability to see what they should be able to. This results in leading blind, and the outcomes can often be embarrassing at best, and at worst, damaging to ourselves and others. Here are four of the most telling signs of blind spots and five ways to correct them.

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A Mistake Was Made, But It Wasn’t My Fault
Coaching, Leadership, Self Leadership, Blog Jay Desko, Ph.D. Coaching, Leadership, Self Leadership, Blog Jay Desko, Ph.D.

A Mistake Was Made, But It Wasn’t My Fault

Mistakes happen and are almost always a result of human error – which means they aren’t going away anytime soon. While we need to strive to prevent as many mistakes as possible, we also need to respond appropriately when they happen. Here are some of the most common reactions when confronted with an error and a few suggestions on a better way to respond.

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2 Key Characteristics of Influential Leaders
Coaching, Leadership, Self Leadership, Blog Jay Desko, Ph.D. Coaching, Leadership, Self Leadership, Blog Jay Desko, Ph.D.

2 Key Characteristics of Influential Leaders

Few things are more energizing than getting to watch a gifted leader at work. And, few things are more irritating than watching an incompetent person pretend to lead! Leaders with influence have a healthy blend of ability complimented by confidence. Here is a simple matrix to identify four types of leaders. Where are you? And where are members of your team?

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How To Lead Without Being in Charge
Coaching, Self Leadership, Blog Jay Desko, Ph.D. Coaching, Self Leadership, Blog Jay Desko, Ph.D.

How To Lead Without Being in Charge

Many people wish they were “the boss,” but in reality, most people are not and never will be. But those in supportive positions can have a serious impact by leading even when they are not in charge. If they are good at what they do, they make the noise go away for the person they serve. Here are five ways you too can effectively lead without being in charge.

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7 Insecurities That Can Hold Good Leaders Back
Coaching, Self Leadership, Blog Jay Desko, Ph.D. Coaching, Self Leadership, Blog Jay Desko, Ph.D.

7 Insecurities That Can Hold Good Leaders Back

When was the last time you heard yourself or another leader acknowledge being insecure? Almost never, right? Yet, every leader has some insecurities, if they aren’t too insecure to acknowledge them. A tinge of jealousy. A sense of doubt. A hint of fear. A lack of confidence. Insecurities are often surfaced when someone other than yourself is complimented, given recognition, or promoted. We may ignore them or deny them, but insecurities are there and when left unmanaged, can damage our relationships, our credibility, and even harm the organizations we lead. Here are 7 of the most common insecurities that can hold good leaders back.

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7 Leadership Labels: Which are true of you?
Coaching, Self Leadership, Blog Jay Desko, Ph.D. Coaching, Self Leadership, Blog Jay Desko, Ph.D.

7 Leadership Labels: Which are true of you?

Leaders are complicated people. And to think a single word can describe us would be the definition of over-simplification. But we all do have patterns and tendencies that result in a word or two (or three) becoming the labels for which we are known. Here are 7 of the most common words we have seen leaders lead with. Some are not so nice. Others are much more appealing. Which ones best reflect you?

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